My big brother Nick. He was big, bookish and not sporty at all. He was highly intelligent and very learned. Nick knew a lot about a lot. Nick spent his life following up his interests and was researching and campaigning to the end. He had a home-full of books, stacked floor to ceiling, double depth. He loved to be in company and didn’t thrive being on his own. I was happy when he finally found Jillian, his soulmate who really understood him. I will miss him, I will miss worrying about him, and I will just miss him being there. The tributes coming just show how much he touched people’s lives, and in the end that’s all that’s important, that he is remembered and that is how he lives on.